Probably. Pride doesn't do so good with lots of people crowding their space. You have to be really calm with them and let them talk to you in the way they're most comfortable with.
...I guess if that's what they like... it seems like it would be lonely, though! I hope they at least have other people talking with them that they get along with.
Maybe it is, but it's better than stressing them out. They like people who give them space and don't push for questions and treat the things they like with respect. They're not good at small talk and they don't like people who ask stupid questions. And they like people that are upfront about what they want without being coy about it.
They're usually allergic to kindness, but if you do it in a roundabout way they let it slide.
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...I guess if that's what they like... it seems like it would be lonely, though! I hope they at least have other people talking with them that they get along with.
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They're usually allergic to kindness, but if you do it in a roundabout way they let it slide.
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Ah. I definitely scared them off the first time we talked then.
[oops.]
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You can always make up for it though. You just have to try again, but like, slower.
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But they haven't responded [(me running to check to make sure gmail didn't just eat a notif or something)] so they're probably busy...
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[ahhh, yeah. her expression drops at that.]
Well, yes, but... [...] It's been longer for all of you, hasn't it?
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Until then...[they shrug.] There isn't much else you can do besides that yet. Just keep doing what you've been doing.
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What do you say? Wanna head to the airport and see what else we can find? [they were serious about matchie bracelets.]
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