That sounds like a them problem.

[Can't believe Sheila is going to go back to California and walk up to her husband like "hey I want to adopt an eldritch abomination of ambiguous age hope that's cool." Terrible.]

I'm just saying. The offer will still be there in the future. [She's gotta start building her list of reasons to kill a clown or two.] But now that we have established that some people are capable of such a specific form of cruelty— Wanna pick our other conversation back up?