...I think you're the first person not to say sex. [and they sound kind of relieved about that.] But yeah! It's desire, like insatiable desire. Even if it's something you have, you want it in a different way. There's sexual lust, blood lust...um...stuff like that. A desire for attention and taking it for yourself counts, too.

For you...[they pause.] Obviously the easiest way is having sex. Like...multiple people in a day or at a time, or in public, or with someone that slept with someone else before you. But you have a training sword now. Fight until the other person gives up, and then keep going. Or ditch the weapons entirely and get someone to do the deed for you.